Memoir Spotlight: Three Wild Dogs (and the truth)

Three Wild Dogs (and the truth)* by Markus Zusak

The first thing you need to know is that this is a memoir. The second thing you need to know is that it’s the first book I’ve read by Markus Zusak (and it won’t be the last). The third thing you need to know is it’s packed with the kind of beautiful, insightful prose you’d expect in the best novel.

It made me nod my head, laugh out loud, and bawl like a baby.

If you’ve ever owned, loved and lost a pet, this book is for you. Especially dogs (but also cats). Especially big dogs. Especially big, unruly dogs. And, especially, if you’re a novelist who has had big, unruly dogs (which I am).

Zusak loved his big, wild dogs despite (and because of) the chaos they brought to his life – a life of raising two children with his wife, of also owning two fierce cats, of working for 13 years to bring his novel Bridge of Clay to market. He acknowledges that novel isn’t for everyone. And neither are unruly dogs. One line in particular resonated with me…

“… it bears reminding that books, like dogs, owe us nothing. It’s worth it for having done it.”

Read this one. Have your tissue box at the ready. It will be worth it.

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Dream Big, Start Small

A technique for writing and for life.

Post-impressionist painter Vincent Van Gogh said, “Great things are done by a series of small things brought together.” His distinctive technique consists of bold brushstrokes and contrasting colors to create a bigger picture of vibrant intensity and emotion.

Big is wonderful. Yet, big is often overwhelming. Small is less intimidating. Small is doable.

Taking small steps toward a bigger goal is a proven technique for success, whether you’re painting a masterpiece, training for better health, or writing a book.

“I can’t tell you how many times I don’t feel like training and tell myself, ‘I’ll just do one set and see how I feel.’ You would think it would stop working at some point, but I almost always end up doing the whole workout,” wrote James Clear, author of the best-seller Atomic Habits. “Just start. Do a little and see what happens.”

Clear’s trick works for writing, as well. When I don’t feel like writing, I tell myself, “I’ll write for 15 minutes, even it’s just random thoughts.” Inevitably, once my fingers get moving on the keyboard, my brain gets moving, too, and I end up writing for much longer.

You can do great things with a series of small things. The key is to “just start” and see where it takes you.  

Image: Vincent van Gogh’s “Irises,” oil on canvas (1890, courtesy of Van Gogh Museum, Amsterdam (Vincent van Gogh Foundation)


Recommended Reads: 12 Memoirs

Reading multiple perspectives will help you as a writer (and a human being) to understand what other people are thinking, feeling, and grappling with in life. The mistakes they’ve made. The obstacles they’ve overcome. What they’ve learned from those experiences.

Memoirs allow you to get inside the author’s head. And when you’re in her head, you can see the world through her eyes.

Scroll down, past the photo for my list of all-time favorite memoirs (with links*).

Angela’s Ashes by Frank McCourt on his childhood growing up in Ireland.

Born on a Blue Day: Inside the Extraordinary Mind of an Autistic Savant by Daniel Tammet

Breaking Clean by Judy Blunt, a third-generation homesteader describes her hardscrabble life on the prairies of eastern Montana.

Diary of a Young Naturalist by Dara McAnulty, a teenager’s perspective on friendships, family, changing schools, his strong connection to nature, and the complexities of living with autism.

Falling Through the Earth by Danielle Trussoni , an intimate look at growing up with her Vietnam veteran father.

From Baghdad, with Love: A Dog, a Marine, and the Love That Saved Them by Jay Kopelman

I Know Why the Caged Bird Sings by Maya Angelou, “captures the longing of lonely children, the brute insult of bigotry, and the wonder of words that can make the world right.”

My Bondage and My Freedom by Frederick Douglass, a former slave’s reflections written ten years after his legal emancipation in 1846.

Notes on a Nervous Planet by Matt Haig, reflections on how the “world is messing with our minds” and what he does about it.

On Writing: A Memoir of the Craft by Stephen King

The Liars Club by Mary Karr, a hilarious, moving, fast-pace story of growing up in Texas with dysfunctional parents.

The Road from Coorain by Jill Ker Conway, a coming-of-age story from the windswept, drought-haunted Australian outback to the president’s office of an American college.

*When you purchase books from Bookshop.org, a portion of the sale helps support independent booksellers and authors like me.

Indie Bookstore Spotlight: Bookmarks, NC

Anybody else put the local indie bookstore on your must-see list whenever you travel someplace new?

Last month, I visited Bookmarks in Winston Salem, N.C. It’s a lovely bookstore – from the fun murals in the breezeway leading to the entrance, to the caricatures that line the bookshelves (showcasing authors who have visited there). Adjoining the store is Footnote, which has coffee and pastries, cocktails and small plates, and a charming event space. It’s the perfect complement.

The aspect I found most unique about Bookmarks is that it’s a literary arts nonprofit. “Books with Purpose” is their tagline. You can see from this graphic their impact is far-reaching. If you ever have the chance to visit the lovely little town of Winston Salem, N.C., stop by and say hello!


Historical Fiction Recommendation – Figurines

Figurines by Jamie Boud

For the past few years, I’ve served as a judge for the Writer’s Digest Self-Published Book Contest. Out of the 25 to 50 books I’m tasked to read, one or two are to be selected to progress to round-two judging. Most are average, a few have buried potential, and more than a handful are genuinely awful. Sometimes it’s the idea that falls short. Most often, it’s the execution. Common problems are stereotypical characters, inauthentic dialogue, passive language, and shoddy editing.

But in a good year, there is the one – the book that shines. This year, that book was Figurines by Jamie Boud.* I don’t know how it will fare with the next judge, but it impressed the heck out of me.

Figurines contains all the visual hallmarks of a high-quality novel, including striking artwork, professional design, and impeccable copyediting. Boud’s day job is as an artist and designer, and his talent shows.

The true measure, of course, is the writing. Boud shines there, as well. His use of sensory description evokes emotion and draws the reader deep into the complex story. Events from the past are slowly and expertly revealed  to the reader, in first-person by two narrators who become more engaging, authentic, and tragic with each chapter.

From the book jacket: 

In 2011 New York, Rachel is one step away from becoming invisible. Half a century earlier, confined in the clean, white walls of a mental hospital, Anna wishes she could be.

Rachel and Anna’s lives are woven together—one desperate to be seen, to find out who she is in the bright sunlight of New York and the dark shadows of her family history, and one frantically trying to sort reality from the fantasy in her head, to be known as a person before she’s lost to dull hospital labyrinths and the sharp tang of medicine on her tongue. Figurines is a deep exploration of self, of family, of mental illness, and the thin line between invisibility and nakedness. Between desperation and madness.

Historical and literary fiction readers will appreciate this exploration into the many facets of love, loss, family, isolation, and mental illness. Click here to learn more about Figurines.*

*When you make a purchase at Bookshop.org, you support independent bookstores and authors like me.




Halloween Book Fun

Giving out books to trick-or-treaters has been a fun way to share my love of reading with children. I stumbled upon the idea years ago when Googling creative ways to donate books. California mom and author Rebecca Morgan founded “Books for Treats” in 2001 to “feed kids’ minds, not their cavities.”

I don’t object to giving out Halloween candy. (Truth be told, it’s possible I’ve eaten as much of it as I’ve handed out over the years.) But I do champion literacy and the mental health benefits of reading books.

Only about 1 in 3 fourth-graders in the United States are proficient in reading, according to a report by Save the Children. If children can’t read at grade level by fourth grade, they’re unlikely to ever catch up. A key part of the problem is that many children don’t have access to books in their homes or family members who read to them.

To combat those facts, we give books at Halloween. My husband was skeptical at first. In his defense, I tend to go overboard when it comes to books. So, I conceded it might be possible that children would not be thrilled with getting books, and we stocked up on plenty of candy as a back-up.

As it turns out, books-for-treats was a huge success.

The kiddos love it, and they remember. Many run up the driveway saying, “This is the book house!” Often, they take their time going through the baskets to find just the right book, while parents laugh and say, “Just pick one!” Every now and then, a child simply can’t decide and will slip two books into their pumpkin bucket or pillowcase. I smile and look the other way.

Teenage trick-or-treaters are some of the biggest fans; they’re both grateful and suspicious. “I can just take this?” Every year, we buy more books than the year before. We always run out before the night ends.

Giving books for treats at Halloween is a fun way to improve child literacy. And the kiddos love it. #booksfortreats #authorsforliterarcy #readingcommunity

If you’re still not convinced this is the Best. Idea. Ever, check out this CNN article highlighting a neurobiological study of the benefits of books and detriments of screen time on a preschool child’s development. The brain scans are startling. Kids need books.

There are many ways to stock up on books without breaking the bank. Here are few ideas:

  • Thin out your own book collection of board books, early readers and young adult books that your children have outgrown and no longer want. One year, we gave out Manga graciously donated by my daughter who was moving overseas. The kids went bananas.
  • Used-book stores often have large selections of kids’ books in clearance for $1 each. One year, we bought comic books (50 cents apiece) at Bookmans, an indie bookstore in Arizona. When the bookseller learned we were going to give them away to trick-or-treaters, they gave us a 10 percent discount to boot. Library sales are another great source for inexpensive books.
  • If you prefer to give out new books, The Dollar Store often has ones that fit the bill. You can also order inexpensive books from Oriental Trading Company, like this set of 10 nursery rhyme readers for about $6.

DIY Halloween Décor – Old, Spooky Books

In a related note on my obsession with books, check out this photo gallery highlighting a fun DIY project. I hate throwing away books, but sometimes they get outdated or worn out. Other times, the books are of such low quality, I am not comfortable donating them. My solution is to repurpose them in fun ways, like making books look old and spooky for Halloween décor. Scroll down for simple instructions.

DYI Instructions

  1. Tear the covers off paperback books. Paint covers of hardbound books – I used red; when it was dry, I dabbed on burnt umber with a scrunched paper-towel to make it look aged.
  2. Pour left-over coffee into a 9”x13” glass pan. Dip books one at time into the coffee. You can either submerge the entire book, or just the edges; it depends on how old and wrinkled you want them to become.
  3. Fan out the pages and shape the books however you’d like.
  4. Set them outside in the sun to dry, or arrange in front of a fan. Flip the books periodically to make sure all sides get air. It can take a few days to dry thoroughly, depending on how deeply you submerged them.
  5. I also created fake book titles in spooky fonts, make-believe potions and creepy graphics to cut and paste into the books. I dipped the printouts into the coffee and set them on a cookie rack to dry (move quickly when dipping the paper, so it doesn’t get too soggy and fall apart).
  6. Have fun decorating them with Halloween doodads, if you want. I used plastic spiders and ping-pong balls painted like eyeballs. Brush on Modge Podge or Elmer’s glue to help secure pages and décor.